I get married in 4 days to a wonderfully patient man...ahhh the stresses of wedding planning can just make one go bonkers. I hate all the questions that get asked the ones that start out with "would YOU rather..." and honestly all I want to say is all I want to do is marry Andrew. But of course I have to make a decision and usually I end up caring too much about something in the end.  I had one of those moments where it hit me that I would no longer just be going to my home when we visit for holidays. In the beginning I thought having both sets of parents in the same town was the best thing ever....until I realized I couldnt just stay at my house the whole time and be selfish. because of course I adore my family and want to spend hours with my mom talking but now I have two moms and two dads. It will definitely be a learning and adjusting time for both of us but it will be good:)