many have been asking me how is to be married.  and the first thing i want to say is it's awesome all the time...which is really a lie. Not saying that its not awesome isn't the lie part but all the time is. there are moments when my lover man drives me crazy with his millions of textbooks and papers about chemistry thrown all over our living room floor. and like wise im sure i drive him crazy with my "hey i know what would be fun...if you cleaned up your stuff in the living room" but really other than the fact that i am OCD about a clean apartment things are going so well. There is nothing better than the half asleep i love yous as we head to bed or the excited good morning sleepy head as he walks in from a morning jog. He's also the best person to cook for I love cooking for this man. It might be the satisfaction of being someone that can make something appetizing or that no one gets as happy and excited for dinner as my lover man. truly all the "bad" things get outweighed by the good by leaps and bounds. being married isn't easy its a huge transition especially when you are super independent like myself but i wouldn't trade being married to my lover man in a heart beat. so to the many that have been asking married life is so amazing just not all the time;)